tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3184990032979540229.post2870601064043963639..comments2023-10-25T09:49:43.089+01:00Comments on BEN'S PRISON BLOG - Lifer On The Loose: Stop talking, idiot!prisonerbenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14923205052778958118noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3184990032979540229.post-30599661652899442412010-11-03T12:27:17.702+00:002010-11-03T12:27:17.702+00:00Women use sex when they want something - anonymous...Women use sex when they want something - anonymous.<br /><br />Personally I find cash more effective. It's certainly a far sight less likely to get me arrested in Tesco.Vicolahttp://vicola.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3184990032979540229.post-13858757951584714492010-10-28T16:43:31.479+01:002010-10-28T16:43:31.479+01:00I wouldn't worry, we've all made mistakes ...I wouldn't worry, we've all made mistakes like that.Defence Briefhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06385869501459309601noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3184990032979540229.post-145719733028604322010-10-24T20:53:56.536+01:002010-10-24T20:53:56.536+01:00That is just pure slackness, anonymousThat is just pure slackness, anonymousSophie Jhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04336695401529252201noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3184990032979540229.post-38570806689572560192010-10-24T20:10:36.434+01:002010-10-24T20:10:36.434+01:00I agree with Sophie,
Ben get yourself a prostitut...I agree with Sophie,<br /><br />Ben get yourself a prostituteAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3184990032979540229.post-5866823403528146302010-10-24T17:34:09.713+01:002010-10-24T17:34:09.713+01:00Well, my take on this is, in jail anyway, that men...Well, my take on this is, in jail anyway, that men look at women coz they want sex. Women use sex when they want something, for example, A whole load of us were in the lifer room in cookham wood, when it was a womans prison, we all had a batch of hooch on the go, and the only thing missing was some Yeast. One of the girls said, <br />"well, one of us is gonna have to give Mr X ( a screw) a blow job," (in exchange for some Yeast) at which point, i stood back, and said "don't worry, i won't have any" but they were game, and let me have some anyway. I never recall women prisoners talking in a sexual way of male staff. As there were a lot of drug addicts there, there were many women who were brass's (cockney rhyming slang for begger boys ares).Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3184990032979540229.post-89677254799375290212010-10-23T22:55:57.224+01:002010-10-23T22:55:57.224+01:00I totally agree with Florence. Life wouldn't ...I totally agree with Florence. Life wouldn't be worth living if we couldn't appreciate the wonder of each other as human beings, it's the most natural thing in the world. There is nothing like a warm appreciative smile to make you feel better. And it's not about sex, it's about sharing a common humanity, in my book!<br /><br />'People travel to wonder at the height of the mountains, at the huge waves of the seas, at the long course of the rivers, at the vast compass of the ocean, at the circular motion of the stars, and yet ... they pass by themselves without wondering.' <br /><br />Going by this verse, there is lots for you to wonder at in prison Ben.Juleshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16194966950654510250noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3184990032979540229.post-71155088185165323722010-10-23T19:32:41.344+01:002010-10-23T19:32:41.344+01:00Jules and SophieJ, you hit the nail on the head. T...Jules and SophieJ, you hit the nail on the head. The moment men start to ignore me, I go ballistic. I flirt with men because I love men and I love men who flirt with me. That is what we Zulus do even in our dancing. Expressing one's exuality means just that, admiring a good looking man or woman. It does not mean that has to be followed by a sexual orgy., especially for people who think along my lines, i.e. to only have sex in a committal relationship.<br /><br />I hope women working in prison have that kind of flexibility. Rigidity just serves the capitalist view of life, whereby you have to behave in a certain way just to be approved of as a decent human being even it means suppressing your own normal human instincts.florence durranthttp://floenced.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3184990032979540229.post-71955123386574255442010-10-23T18:09:55.926+01:002010-10-23T18:09:55.926+01:00It is quite barbaric to constrain a man's and ...It is quite barbaric to constrain a man's and / or a woman's sexuality like this. Such places that enforce this kind of distortion of sexuality really do have a lot to answer for.<br /><br />Mind you at the bottom line in all of this lies the greatest distortion of all of our sexualities which is that it can be bought and sold. <br /><br />On top of that the authorities see it fit to hide that fact and make prostitution illegal. This then leads to the most horrific acts of violence on the poor mainly women and children who get trapped in it.<br /><br />I really hope your prison ordeal will be behind you soon Ben for you to be able to live as closely as possible to being yourself and to being free.<br /><br />Best wishes xSophie Jhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04336695401529252201noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3184990032979540229.post-74056711051497018412010-10-23T17:12:35.162+01:002010-10-23T17:12:35.162+01:00Aaah, bless! My husband once told me my new hairst...Aaah, bless! My husband once told me my new hairstyle made me look like a monk - women don't forget things like that in a hurry! :)Juleshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16194966950654510250noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3184990032979540229.post-51558481217790130642010-10-23T12:35:31.668+01:002010-10-23T12:35:31.668+01:00Don't worry, it just shows you are human. Ever...Don't worry, it just shows you are human. Every man alive has at some point dug themselves into a hole by accidentally insulting a woman, and generally by the time I've finished talking I couldn't have done the job better with a JCB.Randomtallguynoreply@blogger.com