tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3184990032979540229.post6699500908879153572..comments2023-10-25T09:49:43.089+01:00Comments on BEN'S PRISON BLOG - Lifer On The Loose: The Fear of Hopeprisonerbenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14923205052778958118noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3184990032979540229.post-78579333428462404292012-08-03T01:18:45.993+01:002012-08-03T01:18:45.993+01:00Thanks for your constructive feedback. I though ha...Thanks for your constructive feedback. I though hard about what you said but decided, on balance, to keep posting. I really appreciate your thoughts though!Wigarsenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3184990032979540229.post-31669852112121324182012-08-02T22:21:34.048+01:002012-08-02T22:21:34.048+01:00Not very well at the moment, Mary. It's tough...Not very well at the moment, Mary. It's tough not knowing. Ed.prisonerbenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14923205052778958118noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3184990032979540229.post-70382998858447261482012-08-02T06:26:59.817+01:002012-08-02T06:26:59.817+01:00This brings tears to my eyes to realise how much s...This brings tears to my eyes to realise how much suffering there is in all this, for Ben, his friends and supporters and of course the family involved in Ben's crime. Ben must be given a chance now that he has done his punishment - he must be allowed to become a member of society and make his contribution to the world. Ben should definitely not be kept in prison because someone thinks he is difficult to manage - the only reason he should stay is if it is believed he will commit another serious crime. How could anyone believe that in the circumstances - 30 odd years in prison - no violence etc etc? Lots of us are rooting for you Ben, keep calm and strong. Please try to keep writing - we need to know how you and the Ed are coping.Marynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3184990032979540229.post-38608724367397709852012-08-01T22:36:29.287+01:002012-08-01T22:36:29.287+01:00Sophie. Lovely sentiments. 'arse. Appropriate ...Sophie. Lovely sentiments. 'arse. Appropriate name. Shutup.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3184990032979540229.post-69465448217006289652012-08-01T01:05:06.627+01:002012-08-01T01:05:06.627+01:00Sometimes (when things are going well), I think Bu...Sometimes (when things are going well), I think Buddhism has it all wrong. Then, at times like this, I think there might be something to it after all. How nice it must be, when everything is uncertain and you are poised between great joy and great suffering and the way the coin falls is out of your hands, to be able to let go of all that emotion and just be. Thinking of you all the time.Wigarsenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3184990032979540229.post-45875034742879665012012-08-01T00:12:35.167+01:002012-08-01T00:12:35.167+01:00No matter what the circumstances are in life, ther...No matter what the circumstances are in life, there is always hope. Hope springs eternal.<br /><br />I can imagine that it must be hard for you Ben, since you have been in a prison unit of some sort since you were 14 or 15, with only a glimmer of hope for your future, which must have seemed so far off. <br /><br />As always though, be confident that hope is always there, it's true that it almost always finds its way into our lives one way or another, so don't be frightened to live with hope in your heart, just be willing and able to change according to the changing circumstances around you. Hope and dream, you must do that, thats our humanity, but also be practical every step of the way, and be aware that most often things do not go the way we would like them to go.<br /><br />It is a struggle for us all, and some have it harder than others, but there will be a reason for this, it might not be apparent now but in time you will probably come to realise what its all been about. Best wishes and good luck.Sophie Jnoreply@blogger.com